COMMUNITY GUIDELINES
Small dilemmas only.
A stranger’s YES or NO is useful only when the stakes are genuinely small.
Good questions
Ask about a text, a party, a post, a day off, a small trip, or a second date. Keep it under 140 characters and leave out identifying details.
Questions we refuse
Do not ask about self-harm, emergencies, medicine, legal problems, major financial choices, dangerous or illegal acts, hate or harassment, or sexual content involving minors.
If it matters more
Talk to someone you trust or a qualified professional. If anyone may be in immediate danger, contact local emergency services. Some questions need more than a stranger’s YES or NO.