COMMUNITY GUIDELINES

Small dilemmas only.

A stranger’s YES or NO is useful only when the stakes are genuinely small.

Good questions

Ask about a text, a party, a post, a day off, a small trip, or a second date. Keep it under 140 characters and leave out identifying details.

Questions we refuse

Do not ask about self-harm, emergencies, medicine, legal problems, major financial choices, dangerous or illegal acts, hate or harassment, or sexual content involving minors.

If it matters more

Talk to someone you trust or a qualified professional. If anyone may be in immediate danger, contact local emergency services. Some questions need more than a stranger’s YES or NO.